Yes, we have been there--heartbroken because we've lost our "one and only." The last words I said to him were, "you're gonna miss me when I'm gone."  I asked myself, "Why would you say goodbye?" Then, I replied, "Get over it Little Miss Honkey Tonk and start working on your next broken heart. You can find yourself a brand new man. Cowgirls don't cry! Remember, you can take the girl out of the honky tonk, but you can NOT take the honkey tonk out of the girl."